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Posted on Thursday, June 21, 2012 - 2:41 am:    Edit Post Delete Post Print Post

mee point eto ardham kaledu rao garu..
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just society ki valluu official gaa partners anni introduce avuthanikii marraige avasaram vachindi rao garu
anni dananallo Annadanam Minna lal salam
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manchi ga untey




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Any day bhojaname kada important





ya, manchi ga untey
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Any day bhojaname kada important...
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Musicfan:

what do you guys feel?


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bottom line, bojanam important ani telchara MOVIEART--bemmi.lol1

I don;t see any thing wrong with what they did, Money angle kosam aytey=ikkda pedda functions waste . India lo aytey kummey vachu as usal ga
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first time a!!! aithe e matram upset reasonable...

maaku alvatu aipoindhi :-)
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Posted on Wednesday, June 20, 2012 - 4:03 pm:    Edit Post Delete Post Print Post

Gochesh chivariki adele
Ramu garu this is my first time experience never expeienced first hand. Kind of indication of changing times and what I need to in future

Pobey mama except for the process what else is ther food is not big deal
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papam vallu adigaro ledo ani formality nenu complete chesa..
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Function enjoy cheyaledu anadu ga... Food enjoy chesa untadu le...velinanduku edo okati enjoy cheyali ga...
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Musicfan:

what do you guys feel?


baa abbo ido racha topic matladukunte konni years time pass cheyyochu DB lo ide topic meeda.. so i quit. no comments.MOVIEART--venky

Avunu bojanam chesava inthaki function lo?
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Posted on Wednesday, June 20, 2012 - 3:44 pm:    Edit Post Delete Post Print Post

edo party kellaama food kummesi vacchaama ani enjoy seyyaka...manakunna bending lo intha deep thought avasaramaa rao gaaru

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Posted on Wednesday, June 20, 2012 - 3:34 pm:    Edit Post Delete Post Print Post


Stewie:

its unfortunate that I have to do this.. but I agree with SF


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Posted on Wednesday, June 20, 2012 - 3:26 pm:    Edit Post Delete Post Print Post


Musicfan:

over the weekend I had a different experience. We went to an egagement party, and the function was fine.

However this was a different experience as we know the couple were living togather past few months, they were living like a couple past couple of years.

Now it has become a formality for parents to make if official to their families that they are getting married as if this is all arranged marriage. They did the engagement now in India, asked them to have similar function here. Marriage is planned in August.

For me the questions, are why do people have to waste time and money in doing all these stuff, when they are doing everything already. Why people are hypocrat to society? As they are doing whatever they want irrespective of what other think,

Why do they need marriage as per Indian tradition as the tradition itself is now a mockery. Why cant they just go ahead and do a register marriage and get away with it?

I couldnt enjoy the function as it all appeared as drama...I didnt feel comfortable when Indian traditions used for their convenience without any belief in them,,,

what do you guys feel?




sOdarA,
similar kind of thing happened in our place but 15 years ago. ippuDE neeku ilA anipistE, mAku appuDu elA anipinchi unDAli?
rAmu(Du) manci bAluDu cinnappaTinuncI intE
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Posted on Wednesday, June 20, 2012 - 3:22 pm:    Edit Post Delete Post Print Post

SF mama I don't want to get into success ratio of marriages. My view is very simple whether one really need a ritual or not if they are already living in scccess ratio depends on the individuals

My thought is it is not. But if some one want to go ahead no big deal.But we need not be hypocritical.
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Sachinfan:

e in people marriage cheskotam lo anta pedda boothu emi ledu. they followed every step in process of marriage during the marriage. marriage ki mundu pelli photos pampukune vallu, tarvata ph lo matladukune vallu ipudu veellu inko step mundukelli live in vunnaru..




its unfortunate that I have to do this.. but I agree with SF MOVIEART--bemmi_kya_baat_hai
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Posted on Wednesday, June 20, 2012 - 3:05 pm:    Edit Post Delete Post Print Post

paniki malina gola apandi MOVIEART--bemmi.lungi
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Sachinfan:

personal targetting ani posts esi personal ga teeskunte side tracking kaada mari? ilanti mindset tho discussions ki raamaaka.. anosaram ga mental stress tappa eti raadu..




Thanks for the personal thoughtful advice :-).
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Prasanth:

vkishore bhayya...maree pelli sanskrit mantraalato cheskuntene saastriyamaa..? just asking..endukante kinda don bhayya cheppinatlu nenu sanskrit slokaalu..devuni puuja to kaakunda telugu maatalatho cheskunnaa....




Prashant mama ( Reply only to Prashant mama ) .Nenu topic sagadeeyatam ledu.

Ledu mama Telugu mantrala to kuda valid....It is intent that gives power to the Mantras.JeelaKarra bellam has a property of opening one's aura and rest of the rituals have their meaning too. No problem with Telugu also.
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saha jeevanam chesi a taruvatha peli chesukuna pawan kalyan ni adarsam ga teesukoni.. saha jeeveanam chesi peli chesukuntunaru... whats wrong in that?
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Vkishore:

Discussion cheyyatam ranidi naaka mama...roundabout topics meetavi tecchindi evaru...Divorce enduku vacchindi.

Anywaz restart cheyyali ani naaku ledu...


Chill le mama...naade tappu future lo tamari to cheyyanu discussion.


examples chepte discussion side track iyendi ani conclude cheste inkevadem cheptaaadu...

personal targetting ani posts esi personal ga teeskunte side tracking kaada mari? ilanti mindset tho discussions ki raamaaka.. anosaram ga mental stress tappa eti raadu..
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Vkishore:

Chill le mama...naade tappu future lo tamari to cheyyanu discussion.


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Sachinfan:

jaaga bokka discussion ehe.. endo sodi cheptunnadu.. gattiga adigithe personal targetting anta.. discussion cheyatam chetakapothe evadem chestadu.. naku pani vundi nen potanna .




Discussion cheyyatam ranidi naaka mama...roundabout topics meetavi tecchindi evaru...Divorce enduku vacchindi.

masala add chestunnaru ivi personal line kada...should I have taken the same line of attack..

Anywaz restart cheyyali ani naaku ledu...


Chill le mama...naade tappu future lo tamari to cheyyanu discussion.
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endhukila ginjukuntunnaaru

vkishore bhayya...maree pelli sanskrit mantraalato cheskuntene saastriyamaa..? just asking..endukante kinda don bhayya cheppinatlu nenu sanskrit slokaalu..devuni puuja to kaakunda telugu maatalatho cheskunnaa....
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Sachinfan:




nidra poye time aindha???MOVIEART--gulabi.sharabi
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Gussa_gussa:

Marriage chesukunatapudu ela chesukovalu vala istam kada.... register aithe endhi.. traditional aithe endhi?




Gusaa garu Naa Post 341 chadavandi ardham avutundi.


Sachinfan:

nuv why ani question cheste nenu why not ani question chesta.. you know my answer and I explained very clearly ippatidaaka..

rendodhi.. when people do a dowry negotiation, they crossed the line of hindu rituals, yet they got married in traditional way. why didnt we question them and why do we follow them?

ide question kinda adigithe dowry teeskokunda pelli cheskunnolu vunnaru valla sangathi endi ani adigav? nenu teeskunolla sangathi endi ani adugutunna.. ardam kaaledu anukunta..





Naa reason crystal clear ga cheppanu...They want to get the sanction of something else while not following all the rules ani. Divorce/Ammatalu anni side topics. I am questioning those too...


Anywaz with this line or arguement idi tegadu...

Enjoy bros...I am removing myself from the discussion.
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Gussa_gussa:

Marriage chesukunatapudu ela chesukovalu vala istam kada.... register aithe endhi.. traditional aithe endhi?


jaaga bokka discussion ehe.. endo sodi cheptunnadu.. gattiga adigithe personal targetting anta.. discussion cheyatam chetakapothe evadem chestadu.. naku pani vundi nen potanna ..MOVIEART--bwalk
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Posted on Wednesday, June 20, 2012 - 2:51 pm:    Edit Post Delete Post Print Post


Vkishore:



Memu meetavi question cheyyatam ledu ani nuvvu choosava mama..why this personal line of targetting ?For all you know some of us might be volunteering our time with organizations which work with reform of traditions ?

Aina conclusion ani nuvve anesukunte ela...SImple question adiganu below


discussion lo adigina question ni personal targetting ani conclude cheskunte I believe this discussion is just waste of time. nijam ga personal target cheyalsi voste inta sepu posts padevi kaadu..

conclusion ani nenu cheppindi naa conclusion.. adi kuda ardam kaleda leka ardam iyena just fo the heck of posting ena?
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Vkishore:




Marriage chesukunatapudu ela chesukovalu vala istam kada.... register aithe endhi.. traditional aithe endhi?
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Vkishore:

The couple has been living together for some time,they need not have the sanction of hindu rituals...Why go for this traditional marriage when they could have done a non religious register marriage




nuv why ani question cheste nenu why not ani question chesta.. you know my answer and I explained very clearly ippatidaaka..

rendodhi.. when people do a dowry negotiation, they crossed the line of hindu rituals, yet they got married in traditional way. why didnt we question them and why do we follow them?

ide question kinda adigithe dowry teeskokunda pelli cheskunnolu vunnaru valla sangathi endi ani adigav? nenu teeskunolla sangathi endi ani adugutunna.. ardam kaaledu anukunta..
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Sachinfan:

conclusion endi ante.. evaro vallaki nachinattu valla life ni vallu set cheskunte danini ikkada ekkinchi what do you feel ani disco pettatam anedi pedda boothu.. utter trash.. more over, its just one person's opinion. daniki masala add chesi mockery of tradition ani pedda pedda dialogues veyatam inka pedda boothu..

the real mockery of tradition is happening everywhere and no one questions it but follows it. what a pity..




Memu meetavi question cheyyatam ledu ani nuvvu choosava mama..why this personal line of targetting ?For all you know some of us might be volunteering our time with organizations which work with reform of traditions ?

Aina conclusion ani nuvve anesukunte ela...SImple question adiganu below
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emi chepav ra....CLIPART--cool
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SF

Just answer one simple question

The couple has been living together for some time,they need not have the sanction of hindu rituals...Why go for this traditional marriage when they could have done a non religious register marriage


Nee answer ento cheppu mama chalu. Why are you defending it.}
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conclusion endi ante.. evaro vallaki nachinattu valla life ni vallu set cheskunte danini ikkada ekkinchi what do you feel ani disco pettatam anedi pedda boothu.. utter trash.. more over, its just one person's opinion. daniki masala add chesi mockery of tradition ani pedda pedda dialogues veyatam inka pedda boothu..

the real mockery of tradition is happening everywhere and no one questions it but follows it. what a pity..

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Recent ga aamir khan gadi program chusu baga inspire avuthunatu unaru janalu MOVIEART--bemmi.peep
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Sachinfan:

divorce is also a killer of tradition. and its a major one.. alanti society lo vundi live-in vallu marriage nduku cheskunnaru ani question veyatam lo ardam endi? BTW mockery of tradition ane daniki inko example cheppa nenu.. topic lo divorce ane padam ledu kabatti tekudadhu ante ela..




One thing at a time..example ki: GDP discussion lo will you bring in naxalism,societal evils etc..Or will you atleast adddress the GDP question first.

Live in question chesamu/Mockery of tradition ane topic to deal cheddamu.


Sachinfan:

nen clear ga ne vunna.. boozing in sacred temple ani compare chesi meere confuse iyyaru.. they got married in a traditional way anna point miss iyyaru.




Hinduism lo evils anni deenini cover cheyyatam enta roundabout lo choopinchataniki ee example icchanu...let us get back to track.


Sachinfan:

Again, topic ide.. Againand again topic ide.. ardam kaaledu anukunta.. nenu adigina question ardam cheskuni malli post eyu.. dont post for the heck of posting..




Nenu confuse avvaledu mama...vere topics tekunda just single point stand cheppu ...
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Vkishore:

Topic enti Divorce or Mockery of tradition...Divorce ani thread start chesuko mama discuss cheddamu.


divorce is also a killer of tradition. and its a major one.. alanti society lo vundi live-in vallu marriage nduku cheskunnaru ani question veyatam lo ardam endi? BTW mockery of tradition ane daniki inko example cheppa nenu.. topic lo divorce ane padam ledu kabatti tekudadhu ante ela..CLIPART--lol2

Vkishore:

Who denied that .Did you find anywhere myself advocating that kill your dreams for society..However you have no right to a dream of boozing in a sacred temple ? Adi right anukunte vere valla rights kuda vuntayi.Respect the right antunnamu...Dont confuse between both.



nen clear ga ne vunna.. boozing in sacred temple ani compare chesi meere confuse iyyaru.. they got married in a traditional way anna point miss iyyaru..MOVIEART--banthi

Vkishore:

Topic enti again...Stay on topic.Why is it so hard to stay on the topic and defend it....Dowry ki sanction vunda Hinduism lo ledu...You are equating all the ills present right now to Hinduism.

Dowry lekunda kuda chala mandi pelli chesukuntunnaru chakkaga Traditional HIndu marriage lo ...What about them.

Again topic enti ?



Again, topic ide.. Againand again topic ide.. ardam kaaledu anukunta.. nenu adigina question ardam cheskuni malli post eyu.. dont post for the heck of posting..
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Sachinfan:

society kosam manam bathaka kudadhu.. ala bathikithe a bathuku ki ardam vundadhu..one should live for their self respect.




Who denied that .Did you find anywhere myself advocating that kill your dreams for society..However you have no right to a dream of boozing in a sacred temple ? Adi right anukunte vere valla rights kuda vuntayi.Respect the right antunnamu...Dont confuse between both.



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its any kind of marriage.. divorce teeskune vallu they were defnitely killing the tradition of marriage. ila break up ipotannaru kabatti anta mandi ni pilichi grand ga marriage cheskotam deniki register marriage cheskunte pole ani manam question veyaledu kada ikkada.




Topic enti Divorce or Mockery of tradition...Divorce ani thread start chesuko mama discuss cheddamu.



Sachinfan:

people following the ritual lets pick your number of 10 mil. How many people were married without dowry negotiations? you too agreed thats a major killer rt?




Topic enti again...Stay on topic.Why is it so hard to stay on the topic and defend it....Dowry ki sanction vunda Hinduism lo ledu...You are equating all the ills present right now to Hinduism.

Dowry lekunda kuda chala mandi pelli chesukuntunnaru chakkaga Traditional HIndu marriage lo ...What about them.

Again topic enti ?
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Don:

live in is for the couple to become one
marriage is for the families to become one


very simple n apt answer
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Vkishore:

Valla Understanding ki society ki sambhandam ledu.I wish them the very best and a happy married life.


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society kosam manam bathaka kudadhu.. ala bathikithe a bathuku ki ardam vundadhu..one should live for their self respect.

Vkishore:

:-) I suppose Love marriages lo divorces levu anukuntanu....are there any stats somewhere stating only traditional Hindu marriages are breakign...relevance to this discussion ?




its any kind of marriage.. divorce teeskune vallu they were defnitely killing the tradition of marriage. ila break up ipotannaru kabatti anta mandi ni pilichi grand ga marriage cheskotam deniki register marriage cheskunte pole ani manam question veyaledu kada ikkada..CLIPART--a140

Vkishore:

Bhootu vundi ani nenu annana mama. It is as simple as this...To do X ...you need to be qualifed as Y ani vundi oka rule anukundamu...Say 10 million people are following that...will you break through the line even if you are not qualifed as Y and claim a right to X ?. Bad or good ...Bhootu not bhootu ani nenu analedu.Meaning ledu annanu to follow the ritual when rest is done.




people following the ritual lets pick your number of 10 mil. How many people were married without dowry negotiations? you too agreed thats a major killer rt?
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Sachinfan:

rules are already broken ani meere cheptunnaru.. if we have any concern about it, we need to talk about bigger things than this.




Hindusim always held women very high.Society vunna guidance ni twist chesukoni ila tayaru ayyindi...ippudu ippude reform jaruguntundi...break ayyayi ani reform chesukokunda vuntama ? We definetly need to reform a lot of things...one thing at a time.


Sachinfan:

also, live in people marriage cheskotam lo anta pedda boothu emi ledu. they followed every step in process of marriage during the marriage. marriage ki mundu pelli photos pampukune vallu, tarvata ph lo matladukune vallu ipudu veellu inko step mundukelli live in vunnaru..




Bhootu vundi ani nenu annana mama. It is as simple as this...To do X ...you need to be qualifed as Y ani vundi oka rule anukundamu...Say 10 million people are following that...will you break through the line even if you are not qualifed as Y and claim a right to X ?. Bad or good ...Bhootu not bhootu ani nenu analedu.Meaning ledu annanu to follow the ritual when rest is done.



Sachinfan:

okariki okaru teluskokunda pelli cheskuni 1 year tarvata saradaga divorce teeskuni pelli ni comedy chese janaalu kanna veelu chala better.




:-) I suppose Love marriages lo divorces levu anukuntanu....are there any stats somewhere stating only traditional Hindu marriages are breakign...relevance to this discussion ?


Sachinfan:

more over we dont know their understanding about live-in.




Valla Understanding ki society ki sambhandam ledu.I wish them the very best and a happy married life. }
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Musicfan:

what do you guys feel?



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Vkishore:

breakign the rules and making a mockery of it.



Vkishore:

Ammayalani Santalo ammedi oka ku sanskruthi ...Not a single HIndu book sanctions it....Society changed a lot during the Medevial times......


rules are already broken ani meere cheptunnaru.. if we have any concern about it, we need to talk about bigger things than this.

also, live in people marriage cheskotam lo anta pedda boothu emi ledu. they followed every step in process of marriage during the marriage. marriage ki mundu pelli photos pampukune vallu, tarvata ph lo matladukune vallu ipudu veellu inko step mundukelli live in vunnaru..

okariki okaru teluskokunda pelli cheskuni 1 year tarvata saradaga divorce teeskuni pelli ni comedy chese janaalu kanna veelu chala better.

more over we dont know their understanding about live-in.
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Sachinfan:

freedom of rights ani anta pedda lecture cheppi malli pelli cheskotam against society ani clause enduku?

india lo aavu ni poojinchinollu ikadikochi beef tintunnaru.. idi anthakanna ghoram aa?




It is not about Pelli ...it is not about Clause...Why the hypocrisy ani question...You need to get married...you really dont need the sanction of Hindu traditions...so why go for it...bending and breakign the rules and making a mockery of it.

Evaru enforce cheyyatam ledu..Kani ila chesukunte pote migaladu tradition since the heart is hollowed out antunnanu.

Beef tinatanni kuda ante gattiga khandistanu....That is hypocrisy too. It might need a separate thread.Lets discuss on marriage.
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Musicfan:

SF mama, that is what exactly I am saying, it is my opinion, and basically I am not denying anything or defending anything, I shared my perspective on this event and want to know from others what people are thinking in changing times,


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Vkishore:

Feel free to do whatever you want to do in the freedom of your rights....in your home...circle etc...When it comes to Society's collective right or following traditions...the individual needs to respect the tradition.




freedom of rights ani anta pedda lecture cheppi malli pelli cheskotam against society ani clause enduku?

india lo aavu ni poojinchinollu ikadikochi beef tintunnaru.. idi anthakanna ghoram aa?
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Sachinfan:

other thing entante.. hindu tradition gurinchi manam inni cheppukuntannam kani..ivala pellillu ela jaruguthunnayo chudandi. so called traditional method follow iyye vallu ammayi ki abbayi ki nachatam sangathi pakkanetti bargaining cheskuntunnaru.. inni kavali anni kavali ani.. is it defined anywhere in our tradition?

aada pillalni santa lo bomma la lekka beram aadina roju ne mana tradition matti lo kalisipoindi..




:-) Mama Both are not Hindu traditions

Hindu marriages are of 8 kinds..Danilo Swayavaram kuda vundi...all our ancient books followed Swayamvara where the girl had the full right

Ammayalani Santalo ammedi oka ku sanskruthi ...Not a single HIndu book sanctions it....Society changed a lot during the Medevial times......

:-( Adi Tradition tappu kadu mama...dont blame tradition for it....Many factors jarigayi...Invasions...Societal upheavals etc.}
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Sachinfan:

valid ani meeku anipinchaledu ante its just your opinion anthe..




SF mama, that is what exactly I am saying, it is my opinion, and basically I am not denying anything or defending anything, I shared my perspective on this event and want to know from others what people are thinking in changing times,
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marriage is for the families to become one



ee dialog trivikram di kadaa,, CLIPART--lol2
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Vkishore:

Manam enjoy cheyyaleka poyamu ane line :-) arguement lo avasaram mama ...lets keep the discussion on topic.

Second nobody is dictating terms ane munde cheppa...When it comes to tradition it is society's collective right...Just like Tirupati Temple...Neeku freedom vundi kada ani velli temple pranganam lo mandu kottalevu....there are some rules...

It is a subtle debate....Nammakam lekunda ila chesukunte pote ultimately tradition chacchipotundi...

Hindu Marriage anedi oka sacred ritual not just a social gathering...also tradition to mudi padi vundi...you cannot totally dissect it from society..Feel free to do an non religious register marriage...then you apply all those rules


first line was intended for the first post in this thread.. mee gurinchi kaadu le.. MOVIEART--bemmi6

other thing entante.. hindu tradition gurinchi manam inni cheppukuntannam kani..ivala pellillu ela jaruguthunnayo chudandi. so called traditional method follow iyye vallu ammayi ki abbayi ki nachatam sangathi pakkanetti bargaining cheskuntunnaru.. inni kavali anni kavali ani.. is it defined anywhere in our tradition?

aada pillalni santa lo bomma la lekka beram aadina roju ne mana tradition matti lo kalisipoindi..
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Sachinfan:

you are not the judge here.. they are the judges for their life.MOVIEART--banthi valid ani meeku anipinchaledu ante its just your opinion anthe..




Feel free to do whatever you want to do in the freedom of your rights....in your home...circle etc...When it comes to Society's collective right or following traditions...the individual needs to respect the tradition.


Ledu cheyyanu anna poyedi emi ledu..

We are talking about a specific Hindu/Muslim/Christian marriage...Nenu simple ga register chesukuntanu ante evaru aaputaru ...it is about the hypocrisy of wanting to get the sanction of something and at the same time bending the rules to do a live in before marriage

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Musicfan:

SF mama, I dont see any reason valid..


you are not the judge here.. they are the judges for their life.MOVIEART--banthi valid ani meeku anipinchaledu ante its just your opinion anthe..
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Sachinfan:

exactly.. anduke live in vunnaru kabatti pelli cheskotam deniki anedi utter trash.. they were not killing the tradition anyway. many reasons vuntai.. self satisfaction, parents kosam, legality kosam.. etc etc whatever reasons.

manam enjoy cheyaleka poyam kadatti why like this ante thats not fair..




Manam enjoy cheyyaleka poyamu ane line :-) arguement lo avasaram mama ...lets keep the discussion on topic.

Second nobody is dictating terms ane munde cheppa...When it comes to tradition it is society's collective right...Just like Tirupati Temple...Neeku freedom vundi kada ani velli temple pranganam lo mandu kottalevu....there are some rules...

It is a subtle debate....Nammakam lekunda ila chesukunte pote ultimately tradition chacchipotundi...

Hindu Marriage anedi oka sacred ritual not just a social gathering...also tradition to mudi padi vundi...you cannot totally dissect it from society..Feel free to do an non religious register marriage...then you apply all those rules

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Sachinfan:

many reasons vuntai.. self satisfaction, parents kosam, legality kosam.. etc etc whatever reasons.




SF mama, I dont see any reason valid..
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Musicfan:

Basic gaa pelli ane ritual iddarini kalipe ritual, when you are already togather take different path ani antunna,


music rao garu..meeru ekkuva aalochinchi complicate chesukokandi..
live in is for the couple to become one
marriage is for the families to become one CLIPART--lol2
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Musicfan:

Bemmam, Indian tradition prakaram cheste, naa feeling entante, either you follow tradition or ignore it,

there is no between path ani naa feeling..




Impossible for anyone brother. Edo oka chota manam tradition follow avvam (marriages included).
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Nayak:

....enjoyment ki edho oka ocation kaavali kadha




Daniki emi problem ledu nayak mama, they can call in a party and get away with it, Pelli ane tradition akkarledu,

When they legally become togather, they can call in for a party and enjoy, who cares.

Basic gaa pelli ane ritual iddarini kalipe ritual, when you are already togather take different path ani antunna,

I am not saying they cannot live togather,they cannot enjoy, its their choice we cannot deny any of their choices
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Vkishore:

SF mama it is not about dictating terms...its a free country bro...ultimately evariki tochinattu vallu chesukovacchu...


exactly.. anduke live in vunnaru kabatti pelli cheskotam deniki anedi utter trash.. they were not killing the tradition anyway. many reasons vuntai.. self satisfaction, parents kosam, legality kosam.. etc etc whatever reasons.

manam enjoy cheyaleka poyam kadatti why like this ante thats not fair..
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Vkishore:

Don bhayya legality kosam Register chesukoni Hilton lo party chesukovacchu kada...
Daniki vacchi traditional chesukovatam endukani?



adi vaalla personal decision kada annai..
asala tradition ni follow ayyi.. each custom ni ardam chesukuni pelli chesukunevaallu chaala takkuva..may be 1% untaaremo..
ee DB lo pessu tappa inka evaru undaru anukuntunna..
tradition is all relative.. manam ela ardam chesukunte ala..it can be in dressing or in the customs or it can anything..
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Nayak:

Rao garu, mana pellillu, engagementlu etc anni andaram oka chota kalisi enjoy seyyataaniki maathrame....enjoyment ki edho oka ocation kaavali kadha




Ledu mastaru there is a very deep meaning for the Jeelakarra bellam...In fact Jeelakarra belam is taken as the true marriage at that right muhurta..

Iddaru Individuals energy tie avutundi together....( Aura and Energy ) .

It is not just a social gathering.
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Bemmam, Indian tradition prakaram cheste, naa feeling entante, either you follow tradition or ignore it,

there is no between path ani naa feeling..
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Sachinfan:

register hesi hilton lo ne party cheskovala why not traditional??




SF mama it is not about dictating terms...its a free country bro...ultimately evariki tochinattu vallu chesukovacchu...

Kani some things have sanctity...Tirupati temple lopala Jagan Supporters aravoccha ante...Aravocchu kani place sanctity spoil avutundi...

Live in vallu Traditional chesukovaccha anta bheshukaga chesukovacchu...who is stoppping them....But where is the sanctity and meanign left for the ritual ?

P.S I am not classifying their union as less...
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Rao garu, mana pellillu, engagementlu etc anni andaram oka chota kalisi enjoy seyyataaniki maathrame....enjoyment ki edho oka ocation kaavali kadhaMOVIEART--bemmi.ok
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Vkishore:

Don bhayya legality kosam Register chesukoni Hilton lo party chesukovacchu kada...

Daniki vacchi traditional chesukovatam endukani?


register hesi hilton lo ne party cheskovala why not traditional??
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Don:

so it calls for a celebration..not just for the sake of society.. vaallu kooda konchem feel avvali kada that they are uniting (legally)




Don bhayya legality kosam Register chesukoni Hilton lo party chesukovacchu kada...

Daniki vacchi traditional chesukovatam endukani?
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Musicfan:

Why do they need marriage as per Indian tradition as the tradition itself is now a mockery. Why cant they just go ahead and do a register marriage and get away with it?




Yes this would be classified as mockery...Live in vundi anni avutunnappudu formal Pelli avasaram emi ledu....there is no meaning in the process of a hindu marriage.

For eg: Pelli lo Tera Kadutaru...Since in olden days untill that time bride and groom would not have seen each other....there is a sacred meanign and also social meaning of heightening the curiosity for each other...alage pelli lo chala vaatiki meanings vunnayi...


Denamma jeevitam ikkada Live in vundi same roof kinda anni karyakramlu chesi....just to show off ippudu nenu pelli chesukunte ante...


Anywaz changing times.
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Why do they need marriage as per Indian tradition as the tradition itself is now a mockery. Why cant they just go ahead and do a register marriage and get away with it?


rao garu..marriage is an experience, I want to say its a once in a lifetime experience (but you know that is not true anymore)
life lo big changes lo marriage okati (alaane first kid kooda)
so it calls for a celebration..not just for the sake of society.. vaallu kooda konchem feel avvali kada that they are uniting (legally)
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Musicfan:

I couldnt enjoy the function as it all appeared as drama...I didnt feel comfortable when Indian traditions used for their convenience without any belief in them,,,




I agree rao garu..kakapote Society often behaves hypocritically in many occassions.India lo kuda common ne idi in Metro's.
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Sasibabu:

ekkadanundi ekkadiki link thagilichaadu maayya




ee madhya adi trend ga america lo MOVIEART--bemmi6
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Musicfan:

Gaali mama

My point is changing times to mandatory formalities tagginchaali. Pelli anedi iddarni kalapataniki already kalisi unte evarini satisfy cheyyataniki ivanni cheyyali?




Practical ga soosthe meeru cheppedi correste. Kakapothe pant esukonnodu gulloki ella koodadhu, jandhyam vesukunnodu meat tina koodadhu ante kudarademo ani naa feeling. MOVIEART--bemmi.adi
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Ravanabrahma:

YSRC vallu evaru kanduva veyyaledu kabatti meeru happy ga feel avvali


ekkadanundi ekkadiki link thagilichaadu maayyaMOVIEART--bemmi.surprise2
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Musicfan:

My point is changing times to mandatory formalities tagginchaali. Pelli anedi iddarni kalapataniki already kalisi unte evarini satisfy cheyyataniki ivanni cheyyali?




I agree annai. YSRC vallu evaru kanduva veyyaledu kabatti meeru happy ga feel avvali annai.
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Kingchoudary:

1 year ayindi anukontaa baa




yeah,,,Rao Garu traditional ga & moral ga values padipothunnai ani disturb avuthunnaremo.....nen ganuka monna bi-polls lo simpesukunnatlu. kaani prasthuthaniki manam seyyagalgindhi emundhi :-(:-(
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Posted on Wednesday, June 20, 2012 - 1:27 pm:    Edit Post Delete Post Print Post

Gaali mama

My point is changing times to mandatory formalities tagginchaali. Pelli anedi iddarni kalapataniki already kalisi unte evarini satisfy cheyyataniki ivanni cheyyali?
SOTW-Idele Tarataraala charitam
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Farex:


Rao garu,,deeni midha meeru oka two yrs byack thedd esar,,,,affudu full range lo disco jarigindhi kadha?

same ilage evaroo mi telsina vallu ,,,edho pelli matter




1 year ayindi anukontaa baa MOVIEART--bemmi.ok....
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Farex:


MOVIEART--GM opeeser
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Kingchoudary:

adhi manchidaa kaada ani mana lanti vallu yemanukontarani vallu feel avaru kabatti valla gurinchi manam feel avakudadhu....


MOVIEART--sunil.cry
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Musicfan:

what do you guys feel?




Rao garu,,deeni midha meeru oka two yrs byack thedd esar,,,,affudu full range lo disco jarigindhi kadha?

same ilage evaroo mi telsina vallu ,,,edho pelli matter :-(
Jagamanthati Kutumbham Nadhi
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Posted on Wednesday, June 20, 2012 - 1:24 pm:    Edit Post Delete Post Print Post


Musicfan:


what do you guys feel?




Yevadi comfortable vaadidhi, yevadi problem vaadidhi mama....adhi manchidaa kaada ani mana lanti vallu yemanukontarani vallu feel avaru kabatti valla gurinchi manam feel avakudadhu....
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Posted on Wednesday, June 20, 2012 - 1:14 pm:    Edit Post Delete Post Print Post

annai..cheyyakapothe aallu soosava ela untunnaro anukuntaru. ila indian style lo chesthe ippudenduku bokka antunnaru. CLIPART--angry

edo janala kosam chesthunnaru annai. janalu bathikede janala kosam. aa pillalaki edaina okate. edo peddollu sethunnaru anthe.
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Musicfan:




mana jeevitham lo baga chesukunadhi peli... adhi kuda vadu ante eta???
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Musicfan:

Why do they need marriage as per Indian tradition as the tradition itself is now a mockery.




The arbhatam.. is becoz they will think twice when they want to sepearate.. ..
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Posted on Wednesday, June 20, 2012 - 1:04 pm:    Edit Post Delete Post Print Post


Musicfan:




Rao gaaru

Rendo pakka nundi choodandi. Indian traditions kooda maaruthu vasthunnai kada? Meeru eppati traditions gurinchi matlaaduthunnaru? Last 50 yrs or 1000 years? Oka 30 years back varaku chinna pillalaki pellillu chese vaaru mana culture lo. Vidhavalaku second marriage oppukone vaaru kaadu. Sati ane daarunamaina sampradaayam undedhi. Katnaalu, kaanukalu ippatiki unnai. Mee worry deni gurinchi clear ga cheppandi.

MOVIEART--kochen
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Rratna:

Thama music time lo Ghantasala ante ela rao garu




ratna mama, that is my point, changing times lo changing traditions undali, we need not do these formalities.
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Musicfan:

Most of their acquaitence know that they are living togather, what is achieved re-iterating that?


reiterating that we are living together not just for jinchak jill jill but forever ani ardham anukunta rao goru ....just to show a stop signal to all the chevulu korikings and rumours if there are any ani ardham anukunta
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I couldnt enjoy the function as it all appeared as drama...I didnt feel comfortable when Indian traditions used for their convenience without any belief in them,,, //////

Thama music time lo Ghantasala ante ela rao garu
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Gussa_gussa:

Valu idaru already live in kabati marriage ki antha karchu petakudadhu antunava?




two things gussa,

yeah, marriage is supposed to bring in two persons togather, when you are already togather, it just becomes a legal process,, Just get away with legal process, why do one need a ritual for that?

Most of their acquaitence know that they are living togather, what is achieved re-iterating that?
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Posted on Wednesday, June 20, 2012 - 12:59 pm:    Edit Post Delete Post Print Post


Musicfan:

what are we using these traditions for? where society is mapping the changes in life style and where are heading in terms of these traditions


appudu madisiki, janthuvulaki theda enti rao goruuu
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Sasibabu:




ippatiki ippudu kaadu kaani, general thought process start ayyindi, what are we using these traditions for? where society is mapping the changes in life style and where are heading in terms of these traditions
SOTW-Idele Tarataraala charitam
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Valu idaru already live in kabati marriage ki antha karchu petakudadhu antunava?
Miami Heat Masi aipovali
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Posted on Wednesday, June 20, 2012 - 12:52 pm:    Edit Post Delete Post Print Post


Musicfan:

what do you guys feel?


MOVIEART--bemmi.adi Rao garu....meeritta sudden gaa adigithe etta
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Posted on Wednesday, June 20, 2012 - 12:51 pm:    Edit Post Delete Post Print Post

over the weekend I had a different experience. We went to an egagement party, and the function was fine.

However this was a different experience as we know the couple were living togather past few months, they were living like a couple past couple of years.

Now it has become a formality for parents to make if official to their families that they are getting married as if this is all arranged marriage. They did the engagement now in India, asked them to have similar function here. Marriage is planned in August.

For me the questions, are why do people have to waste time and money in doing all these stuff, when they are doing everything already. Why people are hypocrat to society? As they are doing whatever they want irrespective of what other think,

Why do they need marriage as per Indian tradition as the tradition itself is now a mockery. Why cant they just go ahead and do a register marriage and get away with it?

I couldnt enjoy the function as it all appeared as drama...I didnt feel comfortable when Indian traditions used for their convenience without any belief in them,,,

what do you guys feel?
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