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Blazewada
Mudiripoyina Bewarse
Username: Blazewada
Post Number: 18982
Registered: 08-2008
Posted From: 111.223.89.209
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My Say:
Its all becaus eof parenting issues. pilallu chinappati nundi expose ayye environemtn batti impressions fomr aitaai, those impressions will make them behave like that girl or boy.
dominating mother, dummy father combo ki puttina ammayi ki pellayaka alage behave chestundi
dominating father,dummy mother ki puttina abbayiki kooda alane untaad, adolla meeda respect undadu
iddaru dominating parents aithe pillalu either lechipotharu or mooskuni suffer aitharu.
ee madhya kalam lo choosina cases:
marriage happens, pellayaka cannot fit in family, harrasment case, settlement for lakhs/crores based on status, a victim place la ammai unte Candle batchey ready aipoddi make up eskoni center la nunchodaniki, next day @care evad pattinchukod aa amaayini, e evedi lo racha ekkuva cheskuni kapuraal kooluchukuntaar.
matter over... current generation gabbu antar, i say generation parents valle idantha aitaandi. |
Andhramass
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Username: Andhramass
Post Number: 53821
Registered: 07-2006
Posted From: 203.6.146.5
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Gaali: But magaadu kooda aadavaallani gouravistam nerchu kovaali. Tana kinda financial ga dependent kabatti ishtam vacchinatlu pravarthincha koodadu.
yee oorillo annai?
it's not happening any more like it used to happen in old good days.
those days were gone...
anni dananallo Annadanam Minna lal salam
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Andhramass
Bewarse Legend
Username: Andhramass
Post Number: 53820
Registered: 07-2006
Posted From: 203.6.146.5
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I support you maanas
anni dananallo Annadanam Minna lal salam
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Vkishore
Pilla Bewarse
Username: Vkishore
Post Number: 673
Registered: 10-2011
Posted From: 149.199.62.254
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ee thread title choosi Naaittam vesadu emo anukunnanu ...
Anywaz article ni poortiga chadivite
article:In West Bengal the number of cases under the section has grown exponentially at the rate of 11 per cent in the last two years but the conviction rate has dropped to just 4.4 per cent from 6.3 per cent earlier, as per the survey.
West Bengal accounts for 1.06 lakh case, which is more than 20 per cent of the total cases filed under the section and 80,000 people were arrested for such cases against him last year, Indranil Gupta, an official of the NGO said.
Also Causation and Correlation ki teda vundi...Study is using one point of male suicide after marriage kaani caused by what ...financial hardship,mental torture,misue of 498 anedi clear indication ledu
Any law will get misused bottom line.... |
Musicfan
Celebrity Bewarse
Username: Musicfan
Post Number: 44806
Registered: 05-2004
Posted From: 134.244.2.186
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 for Maanas Naidu 
Ramayya Vastavayya
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Godfather
Bewarse Legend
Username: Godfather
Post Number: 73655
Registered: 03-2004
Posted From: 85.218.235.196
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Maanasuu kummavu.. 
NGO kooda start chesava.. awareness kosam nee krushi neevu cheyi.. Superuu asala..
Ee madya illati cases regular gaa vintunam.. |
Tagubothu
Kurra Bewarse
Username: Tagubothu
Post Number: 2606
Registered: 05-2005
Posted From: 122.166.238.155
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Filmlover: annai ee topic meeda intha knowledge vunna manishini ippati varaku nenu chudalaa
Necessity is the mother of all inventions
All I have in this world is my balls and my word and I don't break them for no one!!
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Naaistam
Celebrity Bewarse
Username: Naaistam
Post Number: 40790
Registered: 07-2005
Posted From: 14.96.20.64
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Filmlover:
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Filmlover
Pilla Bewarse
Username: Filmlover
Post Number: 893
Registered: 01-2013
Posted From: 182.72.76.218
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Naaistam:
annai ee topic meeda intha knowledge vunna manishini ippati varaku nenu chudalaa
ALLAM VESINA PESARATTU
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Naaistam
Celebrity Bewarse
Username: Naaistam
Post Number: 40789
Registered: 07-2005
Posted From: 14.96.20.64
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IRBM vachaka asalu pelli anede undadu india lo...wait for another one parliamentary session...mana pillalaki pellillu avutaayi ante nenu nammanu...chusthu undandi |
Naaistam
Celebrity Bewarse
Username: Naaistam
Post Number: 40788
Registered: 07-2005
Posted From: 14.96.20.64
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Gaali: I am saying that it is part of evolution based on them being treated like door mats in olden days.
hmm...correcte.. |
Musicfan
Celebrity Bewarse
Username: Musicfan
Post Number: 44798
Registered: 05-2004
Posted From: 134.244.2.186
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Blazewada:BP Raise aiddi avi chadivithe.
Ramayya Vastavayya
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Gaali
Celebrity Bewarse
Username: Gaali
Post Number: 36719
Registered: 03-2004
Posted From: 131.247.54.65
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Naaistam:
Maanasi I am not arguing about present scenario. Ammailu maga vaalla laaga undaalani enduku utsaha paduthunnaro gurinchi discus chesthunnam manam. I am saying that it is part of evolution based on them being treated like door mats in olden days.
Be Positive!
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Naaistam
Celebrity Bewarse
Username: Naaistam
Post Number: 40787
Registered: 07-2005
Posted From: 14.96.20.64
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Blazewada:
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Blazewada
Mudiripoyina Bewarse
Username: Blazewada
Post Number: 18977
Registered: 08-2008
Posted From: 119.56.117.30
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, October 03, 2013 - 9:41 am: |
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kondaru a 498a sega tagili burns tho bayata padatar, kondaru madipotar, kondar atu bayatapadaleka itu madipoleka shake aitar.
Good that we have many sensible people in
this Db. Vishayam teliyani candle batche bayata bane unnar. valu Para lu para lu sthree hakulu ani rasthar. BP Raise aiddi avi chadivithe. |
Naaistam
Celebrity Bewarse
Username: Naaistam
Post Number: 40786
Registered: 07-2005
Posted From: 14.96.20.64
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Gaali:Do you mean to say that in olden days women were respected by men even when they deserved respect? You can't use such statements in all situations. Konchem deep ga vellali.
ledu I agree with you annai...bad man untaadu good man untaadu...kontamandi misuse chesaru when oppurtunities are not equally served kaani melliga aa situation change avuthunnadi kada now whats the matter? ippudu kooda inkaa victim card pattukuni tirigithe ardamemiti...
sound man eppudu kooda oka sthree thana badhyatalu erigi chakkaga chesukuneppudu kooda disrespect chustadu ante nenu nammanu...alaanti vaallanu chudaledu....may be samajam kosam ego pradarsistaru emo kaani deep down the man knows...
mari ippude enduku divorce rates peruguthunnai? |
Peekavle_tokka
Mudiripoyina Bewarse
Username: Peekavle_tokka
Post Number: 13586
Registered: 05-2006
Posted From: 121.242.72.194
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Gaali:
Nobody can hurt me without my permission
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Gaali
Celebrity Bewarse
Username: Gaali
Post Number: 36715
Registered: 03-2004
Posted From: 131.247.54.65
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Musicfan:idanta enduku cheyyali ante lekunte illu smasaname, there are no where articles on how to make your boyfriend happy, endukante men ni happy gaa unchatam chana easy, why women are so complicated, they need to understand, they are no different.
Beautiful. Baaga cheppavu. Visleshiste tappulu dorukutai kaani general ga correct ye.
Be Positive!
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Gaali
Celebrity Bewarse
Username: Gaali
Post Number: 36714
Registered: 03-2004
Posted From: 131.247.54.65
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Peekavle_tokka:annai... December lo manam mandesi maattadu kundaam... deeni gurunchi...!! MOVIEART--bemmi.lite
Tamari daya unte tappakunda kaluddam.
Be Positive!
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Peekavle_tokka
Mudiripoyina Bewarse
Username: Peekavle_tokka
Post Number: 13585
Registered: 05-2006
Posted From: 121.242.72.194
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Musicfan:
maama..tappadantaavaa... enta pagala podichinaa office lo... saayantram intiki yelletappudu... raitu bazaar lo kuragaayalu, pallu poolu teesukoka pote... chaave antaav... 
Nobody can hurt me without my permission
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Musicfan
Celebrity Bewarse
Username: Musicfan
Post Number: 44796
Registered: 05-2004
Posted From: 134.244.2.186
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Peekavle_tokka:How to Make Your Girlfriend Happy
idanta enduku cheyyali ante lekunte illu smasaname, there are no where articles on how to make your boyfriend happy, endukante men ni happy gaa unchatam chana easy, why women are so complicated, they need to understand, they are no different.
Ramayya Vastavayya
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Gaali
Celebrity Bewarse
Username: Gaali
Post Number: 36711
Registered: 03-2004
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Naaistam:respect is never demanded but earned..
Do you mean to say that in olden days women were respected by men even when they deserved respect? You can't use such statements in all situations. Konchem deep ga vellali.
Be Positive!
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Peekavle_tokka
Mudiripoyina Bewarse
Username: Peekavle_tokka
Post Number: 13584
Registered: 05-2006
Posted From: 121.242.72.194
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Gaali: I am sure I am at least partially right.
annai... December lo manam mandesi maattadu kundaam... deeni gurunchi...!! 
Nobody can hurt me without my permission
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Peekavle_tokka
Mudiripoyina Bewarse
Username: Peekavle_tokka
Post Number: 13583
Registered: 05-2006
Posted From: 121.242.72.194
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Musicfan:women physically abuse avute, men mentally abuse avutadu
Perfect... Men ki... manasu kaavali.... manasu to paatu... unconditional love and affection kaavali... but Women ki... Money, status, beauty, shoulder, padimandi mana gurunchi cheppukovale tapana, eduti vaadu gurthinchaalane aatruta, pogadtha etc. etc. laksha tombbai vuntaai... vallaki... oka dress yesukovaalante ne.... Saari ki matching blowse, cheppulu, gaajulu, chevi kammalu, golusulu, bottu billalu, nail polishlu, cheppulu, chaantaallu... vaagulo mitta raka rakaalu vuntai... ade mogaadikemundi... oka pant, oka shirt... lopala kanchu kavacham vunna lekapoyina parledu le anukune rakam...!!! emi chestaam cheppu!!
Nobody can hurt me without my permission
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Naaistam
Celebrity Bewarse
Username: Naaistam
Post Number: 40785
Registered: 07-2005
Posted From: 14.96.20.64
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Musicfan:naaku arthamayyindi enti ante, women physically abuse avute, men mentally abuse avutadu
kachitamga bhayya...physical harassment avuthe chupinchukoneeki scars ayina untaayu...mental harassment ki proof undadu... |
Proofdada
Bewarse Legend
Username: Proofdada
Post Number: 129043
Registered: 03-2004
Posted From: 84.18.155.41
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Musicfan:
thread looni bhaari essays ku...
aa bongulo signature le...
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Gaali
Celebrity Bewarse
Username: Gaali
Post Number: 36710
Registered: 03-2004
Posted From: 131.247.54.65
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Peekavle_tokka:
Dorling,
Nenu present situation gurinchi matladam ledu. If you go back and check the cause for the problem, I am sure I am at least partially right.
Be Positive!
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Musicfan
Celebrity Bewarse
Username: Musicfan
Post Number: 44794
Registered: 05-2004
Posted From: 134.244.2.186
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Proofdada:
ilanti expression ichetappudu evari post ki chepte konchem clarity untundi
Ramayya Vastavayya
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Musicfan
Celebrity Bewarse
Username: Musicfan
Post Number: 44793
Registered: 05-2004
Posted From: 134.244.2.186
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Naaistam:respect is never demanded but earned...
cant agree any more, perfect statement, adi adadi aina magaadu aina respect is earned..
Ramayya Vastavayya
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Proofdada
Bewarse Legend
Username: Proofdada
Post Number: 129041
Registered: 03-2004
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aa bongulo signature le...
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Musicfan
Celebrity Bewarse
Username: Musicfan
Post Number: 44792
Registered: 05-2004
Posted From: 134.244.2.186
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Naaistam:
naaku arthamayyindi enti ante, women physically abuse avute, men mentally abuse avutadu,
Ramayya Vastavayya
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Peekavle_tokka
Mudiripoyina Bewarse
Username: Peekavle_tokka
Post Number: 13582
Registered: 05-2006
Posted From: 121.242.72.194
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Peekavle_tokka:If she has pets, make sure you treat them with respect. She will see that you care for her animals and that you have a good heart.
Deenemma jeevitam idi maree daarunam!!! 
Nobody can hurt me without my permission
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Naaistam
Celebrity Bewarse
Username: Naaistam
Post Number: 40784
Registered: 07-2005
Posted From: 14.96.20.64
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Gaali: But magaadu kooda aadavaallani gouravistam nerchu kovaali.
respect is never demanded but earned...gowravinchatam aadavallane enduku andarni prathi manishi veroka manishini gowravinchali...that has nothing to do with empowerment...
deeni gurinchi alochinchinappudu yes, for sometime women are deprived of the oppurtunities, so they shld be treated with some good sense anukundaam...you give reservation etc etc...but aa time lo misuse ki chance lekunda chudali otherwise aa primary motto ne bokkadipoyinattu...most woman misuse the space of a deprived woman....konni rojulaki system ki chiraaku vachi emaithe favors chesaamo avi teesestaaru...appudu malli genuine woman ne suffer ayiddi...
every person has got a father and mother...biased ga chudane koodadu no matter what... |
Peekavle_tokka
Mudiripoyina Bewarse
Username: Peekavle_tokka
Post Number: 13581
Registered: 05-2006
Posted From: 121.242.72.194
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Gaali:Tana kinda financial ga dependent kabatti ishtam vacchinatlu pravarthincha koodadu.
annai nuvvu inka sankarabharanam rojullo alochistunnav gaa... US lone na vundi... maa vooriki raa... choopistaaru... chinchi avatalestaar!!! kastam mama ivvala rojullo aadollani handle cheyyatam... for them like men everything is available in fraction of seconds..!! mogadanna ginju kovaali kaani kaavalsindi dorakabuchhukotaaniki.... now a days garalas ki chaala veesy..!! last 5 to 7 years lo ayite... inka cheppalsina avasaram ye ledu...!!! toochh!!
Nobody can hurt me without my permission
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Peekavle_tokka
Mudiripoyina Bewarse
Username: Peekavle_tokka
Post Number: 13580
Registered: 05-2006
Posted From: 121.242.72.194
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Naaistam:problem endante aadadi kooda magaadi la undaneeke try chesthunnadi...daanlo goppa emi undi...we have enough men...more men like avasaramledu...
 sabhaash sarabhaa!!! 80% are brainless confused candidates...
Nobody can hurt me without my permission
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Gaali
Celebrity Bewarse
Username: Gaali
Post Number: 36709
Registered: 03-2004
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Naaistam:problem endante aadadi kooda magaadi la undaneeke try chesthunnadi...daanlo goppa emi undi...we have enough men...more men like avasaramledu...
aadadhi more feminine ga thanalo greatest qualities ni andukani atmagowruvam nilupukovaali...adi goppa ante...
ex: mother theressa...
I agree. But magaadu kooda aadavaallani gouravistam nerchu kovaali. Tana kinda financial ga dependent kabatti ishtam vacchinatlu pravarthincha koodadu.
Be Positive!
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Naaistam
Celebrity Bewarse
Username: Naaistam
Post Number: 40783
Registered: 07-2005
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Gaali: Maanasi avasaram kosam chadivaadu. Theda undi.
dbing anedi caste conflicts valane interest vachindi...
legal anedi gender conflicts valana interest vachindi...edo oka driving force undaali ga |
Peekavle_tokka
Mudiripoyina Bewarse
Username: Peekavle_tokka
Post Number: 13579
Registered: 05-2006
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How to Make Your Girlfriend Happy
Do you want to be the perfect guy for your girlfriend? Do you want to give your girlfriend every reason to believe that you're the Mr. Right she's been looking for, without changing yourself? If you treat your lady wonderfully, you'll get the same back from her. Isn't that what every guy wants?
Part 1: Making Her Feel Good
1 Show her affection. Girls want guys to show them affection because it tells her that you care about her, and that you're willing to show that love in a public way. It doesn't always have to be public (PDA), but get used to the idea, because she wants other people to see how much you love her, so don't be afraid to kiss her or hold her hand in public.
Tell her she's beautiful. You have to show her that you mean what you said. If you're really sincere when you tell her how beautiful she is to you, you're going to go a long way.
Also, tell her that she drives you crazy, and that she's the prettiest thing in school. Tell her that you've never met anyone like her.
Compliment her on her looks, but also on her accomplishments, talents and abilities. If she's a great poker player, tell her she's smart. If she's a good listener, tell her she's great with other people.
2 Tell her you love her. Make sure you mean it. If you're not ready to go there yet, that's fine. But, be sure to switch that "I love you" for a really good "You know how special you are to me?" or a "I like you so much; I'm a really lucky guy."
Simple is best. Stick with "I love you," or "You make me so happy," or "I'm really lucky to have you." Don't be so poetic that you go overboard.
These statements make her feel good, and they make her self-confidence soar. Remember, when her self-confidence is high, you benefit. Be steady with your signs of love or affection, enough so that she doesn't forget how much you mean to her, but not so much that the power of the words gets watered down.
3 Touch her regularly and on the spur of the moment. Even the slightest touch can make a woman feel special. Make sure it's a respectful and gentle touch, and not one that's overly sexual or suggestive.
Hold her hand, give her a hug, rub her back, or gently touch her face. These gestures will all make her feel protected and loved!
There's a time and a place for foreplay, but you're not doing yourself any favors if you go there when she's not ready. Make sure she's totally comfortable before you start exploring your sexual relationship.
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Put her first, yourself second. Put her needs in front of yours. This doesn't mean that you have to be whipped, or lose your backbone. It just means that, most of the time, you're willing to bend for her, even if it wasn't something you wanted to do.
If you believe she is "Ms. Right," then make her your number one priority! They say that love is selfless; you're going to have to prove it to her.
If you're with your friends, never ignore her and start talking with your friends or walk off with them as if she's not there. How would you feel if she did this to you? Invisible, right? Keep close to her or glance at her every so often just to let her know you know she's still there and offer a genuine smile.
Listen to her. One of the biggest complaints women have about men is that they don't listen. Even if you're not particularly interested in what she's saying, listen, then acknowledge that you were listening. Let her know that you are the one that she can talk to about anything.
Every woman loves a bit of alone-time with her partner. Book a whole day for the two of you to be alone. Watch a movie, massage her back, snuggle and be intimate. Put other thoughts out of your head and focus completely on her. You'll notice more of a connection when you do this, and that's what you want. Try to schedule a bit of alone-time with her at least every month or so.
Part 2: Treating Her Right
1 Treat her with dignity. Treating your girl with dignity means treating her the way that you would want to be treated. Don't swear at her, manipulate her, use her for your own benefit, or shoot down her ideas. Making her as happy as possible is a goal, so it's not going to happen overnight. But work toward it slowly, and try as hard as you can, even if you don't succeed.
Always stand up for her no matter what. Sticking up for her shows her that you are on her side, and that you're willing to take a public stand for her, which isn't easy.
At the same time, don't put yourself in an impossible situation. If she's having an argument with her parents right in front of you, you probably don't want to take a stand and risk upsetting her parents (who might control a lot about her life). Stay out of family matters as much as possible, but give her backup when she asks for it.
Don't argue in public and cause a scene. This will humiliate her and you; she'll think twice about going out with you again. Stay calm when you have a fight, try as much as possible not to let your emotions take over, and treat her the way that you want to be treated. Keep your voice down, don't yell at her, and expect to apologize, even if you didn't do anything wrong.
2 Share your everyday events and thoughts with your girl. Being open and communicative makes her feel like you want her in your life. Being intimate isn't just about getting to know her body; it's also about sharing the things that happen to you, and going through them together.
On the same note, listen to her advice, even if you don't agree. Force yourself to listen and to see her reasoning. Keep an open ear and an open mind. She'll reward you with all of her love.
Even if you don't have much to say, let her in on what you're thinking. If you're the strong, silent type, she may misinterpret your feelings for her. Let her know what you're thinking so that she doesn't get the wrong idea.
3 If she wants to pay for something, let her. Just make sure that the roles aren't reversed. She goes through a lot to look nice for you, and do sweet things for you, so try to pay for some things when you get the chance. This isn't about the money. It's about showing her that you care enough to treat her on occasion. It doesn't have to be all the time, and don't be flashy about it or act like it's a big deal. Just act like the man.
Part 3: Going Beyond What's Expected
1 Be romantic. Every girl wants a guy with a sense of romance. Girls like to pretend (deep down inside, mostly; sometimes very literally) that they are stars of their own fairy tale, and they want to be treated like it. Show your girl that you care about her by putting a little effort into your romance.
Write her love notes. Notes don't have to be long, mushy and poetic if you're not the type. Quick and silly ones will do just fine. Try to make them cute (girls love things that are "cute," like a drawing) as a way to show her that you care. Write the notes on actual paper, too.
Don't email or text her this. Emails tell her you're lazy and not willing to put in extra time for her. Be a man, put some effort into it, and write her a good, old-fashioned letter.
Tell her that you're lucky that you found her. Tell her that she makes you want to treat yourself better. Tell her that from the moment you first saw her, you knew she was special. This is a great way to be romantic.
2 Be thoughtful. The small things matter the most. Be a gentleman. Hold doors open for her. Thinking of her means putting yourself in her shoes sometimes and wondering what you can give her or do for her.
Ask her if she's cold when it's cold out; have a jacket or a sweater handy so you can give it to her.
When she isn't feeling well, or she's sick, bring her some soup, hot tea or flowers. Hold her hand at the movies or when you're walking. Get her something just because.
Small things like a single flower, a magazine you know she likes, a bag of her favorite candy or a chocolate bar will go a long way. Show her that you're thinking about her.
3 Remember what she likes and dislikes. Being romantic is all about taking what you know about her and showing her how much these things mean to you.
How does she like her eggs cooked? What is her favorite flower? What about perfume? What does she enjoy doing when it comes to dates? What are her favorite books, and her favorite songs?
Remember what she likes to eat and cook it for her. Or remember what kinds of flowers make her feel womanly, and send them to her. Or remember what songs make her want to dance, laugh, and cry, and make a mix for her.
4 Remember important dates. This is a big deal with women. Birthdays, anniversaries and other milestones are all opportunities to show her how special she is to you. Keep an agenda or a calendar with all these dates.
When it's her birthday, bring her a present (chocolates, gift certificates, shoes all work great) and send her some flowers. Don't forget to write her a card, being funny and romantic about how she's getting older but that, to you, she'll always be as young as the day when you first saw her.
When it's your anniversary, book something special for you both to let her know how much you appreciate and love her. Make a scrapbook where you keep all the ticket stubs of the places you've gone together, and jot down your memories of the dates.
Send her a Facebook video message where you tell her how important she is to you, and how you'll never forget the first date you two went on.
Remember that women want to be spoiled on these occasions. Flowers at her door, dinner together in a nice place — these things show that you care. Remember that it isn't about the money, but the thought behind the action that counts.
Part 4: Understanding What Makes Her Happy
1 Understand what makes women click. Women are maternal creatures: they love taking care of things. That's why she cooks you great meals, or packs your backpack, or worries when you don't call after you've gone home. Take advantage of her nature and show her that you appreciate her effort, and let her know that you care back.
Remember that women have been raised around stories that end in ladies finding the "Perfect Man," becoming a Princess and living happily ever after. It's ingrained into their subconscious that they must find a man who is perfect in every way. While this is basically impossible, you want to try to be that prince for her.
Girls want to feel special. Girls want to be able to brag to their girlfriends about how great you are; they want to know that you're as invested in the relationship as they are; they want to picture themselves being the luckiest girl in the world. Be the kind of guy that gives her these things.
The more you make her feel like it's her specifically that you love, and not just any old girlfriend, the more special she'll feel.
So, don't say "I love curves on women" if you want to compliment her; instead, say "I love how your curves show off your beautiful body."
Likewise, don't compliment her feminine assets as much as the things that are truly unique about her. Something like "I never realized until now how your eyes look exactly like sapphires," is a lot more endearing than something about her chest.
2 Understand the differences between men and women. We all know that men and women think and behave differently. It's important to know why, because it will help you do some of the things she expects you to do.
Understand that she doesn't think she's being clingy. Being around, worrying about your safety — these things are a natural part of being a woman, and therefore part of who she is. Learn to love that aspect of her.
Think of it as a good thing: Women are only inclined to be "clingy" if they genuinely love and care about you a great deal. If she has stopped doing these things, there may be something wrong!
If you need a little break from her, tell her in a sweet, loving way: "You know I love spending time with you. But I haven't seen my boys in a while, and I was hoping to catch a movie with them this weekend. Do you mind if I go?"
It's not all about sex for her. Guys have a much different sexual drive than girls. For girls, it's not about the sex itself, but rather about the intimacy or closeness that she shares with you. If she thinks that all you want from her is sex, she's probably not going to give it to you. If she believes that she's all you want, then eventually she'll give all of herself to you.
3 Be confident. Girls love guys who are really confident in who they are. Remember, you don't have to be Brad Pitt or LeBron James to be confident. Being confident is all about knowing who you are, knowing what you like and dislike, and being calm and collected.
Pay attention to what you look like. Shower or bathe yourself regularly, and put on clean, nice-looking clothes. Girls don't need you to look like a male model, but they want other girls to take notice of what a catch you are, and how well you take care of yourself.
Learn to crack a joke. A joke is a great way of projecting your inner confidence. Studies show that men with a sense of humor are very desirable as mates.[1] So, practice jokes, learn which parts of you are funny, and don't be afraid to make fun of yourself. A man with a good sense of humor screams confidence.
Never lie. How would you feel if she started lying to you? Lying is a trust issue, and trust for girls is huge. Give her the same trust she gives you.
The problem with lying is that one lie produces more lies. You usually don't just tell one lie; you get caught in a web of lies. And then it's just simple math: The more lies you tell, the sooner you're going to get caught.
Be confident enough not to lie. If you stop being embarrassed about things, you won't have to lie about them. Even if they are embarrassing, don't let them get to you. Your confidence will grow by the second.
Appreciate her achievements and encourage her to do more.
Watch how you say things to her and manage your tone, especially in an argument. Girls don't like to be talked down to or talked to angrily.
Do not cause an argument that isn't necessary.
Do not bring up your exes. Your girlfriend will feel like she's just of one of your many, not the special someone you tell her she is.
Your friends might accuse you of being "whipped". This probably isn't true, just ignore them. At the end of the day, you have a beautiful girlfriend who loves you, so who cares?
If she has pets, make sure you treat them with respect. She will see that you care for her animals and that you have a good heart.
If you make a mistake, admit it, apologize and tell her you love her.
Don't laugh when you know she's being serious. It will make her feel like you don't respect her opinion.
Do not pressure her to have sex with you if she wants to take it slow. Everything you do from then on will be tainted. You'll probably get more of what you want by making her feel totally comfortable and giving her time.
Whatever you do, never offend her friends. Her friends are her biggest cheerleaders. They control a lot more than you might think, so be nice to them.
Do not fail to tell her how you feel about her. She will always like to hear that from you.
Do not text other girls. This will worry her and make her wonder whether you're cheating. If she's your girl, you don't need any others.
inta chesi... edanna chinna misunderstanding to tappu jarigitee... appadaala karra tiragesi maadu pagala kotti... return lo you dont have heart... nuvvu assalu aada daani manassu ardham chesukovu ani... madyalo Cement goda kattesi kummi avatalestaar!!! endo le... cheppochhedentante... chivariki rod digedi... mogaadike...!!! 
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Gaali:Opportunity leka. Example minorities lo oka Ambedkar pere ekkuva vinpaduthundi.
partly agree kaani okati cheppu annai...aadadi mootalu moyagalada? raallu kottagalada? india ane kaadu US lo ayuna choodu bandalu ethagalademo...
problem endante aadadi kooda magaadi la undaneeke try chesthunnadi...daanlo goppa emi undi...we have enough men...more men like avasaramledu...
aadadhi more feminine ga thanalo greatest qualities ni andukuni atmagowruvam nilupukovaali...adi goppa ante...
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Peekavle_tokka:Manas gaa... MOVIEART--bemmi.surprise2 baagaa... study chesinattunnav gaa.... nenu kooda attane chadivi chadivi... talanoppi vachhindi kaani emi upayogam ledabbaa!!!
Nuvvu just interest meda chadivaavu, Maanasi avasaram kosam chadivaadu. Theda undi.
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Naaistam:
Manas gaa...  baagaa... study chesinattunnav gaa.... nenu kooda attane chadivi chadivi... talanoppi vachhindi kaani emi upayogam ledabbaa!!!
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Naaistam:oka raja ram mohan roy sathi ane mooda acharanni nirmoolinchadu anthe gaani raani ram mohan kaadu
Opportunity leka. Example minorities lo oka Ambedkar pere ekkuva vinpaduthundi.
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Proofdada:theerpul cheppe KC kooda ata bava...CLIPART--clap
Bobbili Brahmanna laaga Sicago Soudaranna..
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end of day women only will suffer, every DIL okaroju MIL avuddi...surity emina undaa only girl kid pudataadi ani?
gender equality teesukuraavali ante education and equal oppurtunities okkate margam anthe kaani laws raasetappudu gender-biased ga raaste article 14 of indian constitution ni violate chesthunnatte ayina padhe padhe feminists groups and vote bank politics lobadi laws tayar chesthunnaru which will only make woman more week...
oka raja ram mohan roy sathi ane mooda acharanni nirmoolinchadu anthe gaani raani ram mohan kaadu...men are always symbol of strength.. |
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Proofdada: theerpul cheppe KC kooda ata bava...CLIPART--clap
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Gaali:This DB has given a Riju, a Nanee and now a Maanas to serve the public.
theerpul cheppe KC kooda ata bava...
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Naaistam:
Maanasi I don't see any law being used positively and truthfully. As we evolve to be smarter day by day the more we are going to abuse these laws. Be it civil, criminal or even something taxation laws.
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Naaistam:
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lol but sad  and true annai
not totally against to 498a endukante we do support genuine woman who suffer because of dowry demands...but misuse ki matram severe punishments undaali...just cannot get away with defamation and perjury cases....the whole family of wife should be jailed for good 7yrs...
also the law shld be made bailable and compoundable...there shld be some civil mediation centres instead of crime against woman policestations where justice can never be met under force...
and DV against the men should also have a section in law otherwise gender equation will never come true
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Proofdada:manasi MOVIEART--dv.cry
Entha edigipoyaadu antaava? 
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manasi 
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Every nine minutes a married man commits suicide in India due to alleged misuse of section 498a of IPC against them, taking the toll to around a whopping 64,000 every year, says a report.
"National Crime Records Bureau statistics reveal more incidences of suicide by married men than by married women. In 2012, approximately 64,000 married men committed suicide vis-a-vis 32,000 married women," says Maanas Naidu, president of Hridaya-Nest of Family Harmony, an NGO, quoting a survey by it.
As per Section 498a the husband of a woman or his relative who subjects her to cruelty shall be punished with imprisonment for a term of up to to three years and shall also be liable to fine.
Maanas said the misuse of 498a also leads to suffering of old parents as well as the family members and relatives of the men against whom the complaints have been lodged.
"The law is not serving its purpose and is instead being used by a section of the people to vent their anger and extort married men and their families," claimed Amit Gupta, an official of the NGO.
More here..
http://www.rediff.com/news/slide-show/slide-show-1-1-married-man-ends-life-every -9-minutes-in-india/20131003.htm
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