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Kurra Bewarse
Username: Aavakaaya
Post Number: 827
Registered: 04-2004
Posted From: 195.220.151.50
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, July 04, 2005 - 7:20 am: |    |
Q: I am a 22-year-old girl in a relationship with a 25-year-old boy. We don't have full sex, but we do indulge in heavy petting and, of late, we've started indulging in oral sex. While he enjoys me giving it to him, he has been very reluctant to return the favour and makes some excuse or the other when I throw a hint. Should I stop doing it for him? Will I lose him if I do so? I am so confused about it, please help.
A: Sex is most definitely about pleasure. The question is whose pleasure? A mature lover is one who has moved from seeking pleasure, to giving it. Oral sex falls into the realm of the latter. There's nothing sexier than two people in the throes of passion trying to outdo each other in giving. Now, you seem to have it figured out. After all, no matter what the books say, oral sex is hard work. It's definitely not fair that your partner expects you to do something he's not willing to do. In a relationship, that's definitely not on! So the question to ask here is what your relationship is based on? A good chin jerker? With tongue firmly in your cheek, tell him if he's not doing it, he's going out. And, if he really cares for you honey, he'll oblige you.
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